Life is a Journey

Life is a Journey
MarBella, Spain

Cameron & Ashton

Cameron & Ashton

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Mary, Mary, quite contrary, how does your garden grow?


Where would they stay until they were ready to be on their own? I needed to be sure they are safe and comfortable.  They have been kept in the dark so long. This must be a shock for them. I needed to select the location guardedly. Finally it hit me, the guest room! Afterall, how could they not like our guest room? They are our guests, honored guests at that. It is bright, cozy, has immediate access to the facilities and prior guests have had no complaints regarding the selection of furnishings. Perhaps they too would find this a salubrious accommodation. I realize they have all the real work to do here but I have tried to make this relatively easy for them.
The packaging is smooth and shiny. The boxes have sat neatly stacked for weeks in the corner, just waiting for this fateful day. I carefully spread the newspapers onto the cool concrete of the garage and began to lay out the individual seed packages. Cautiously, I unwrapped the heating pad, self watering container and assembled the grow light. I selected a narrow, low table in which I would arrange the pots. I positioned it carefully so they would have a clear view of the windows and natural sun. I put the mat down, made sure they had plenty of water in case they were thirsty and I even gave them a warming blanket.




The first real step to making this a reality was hydrating the soil pellets. Carefully measuring, pouring, mixing and pressing I began to fill the seed containers. Ever so gently I placed seeds into each container. Although it may not seem such a big deal, I must confess, at 42, some of those tiny seeds seems impossibly small to see much less handle. Never the less I pushed on until all the containers and pots were filled. Some smooth round seeds like BBs, others looked smaller than a tiny flea. Some of those seeds I swear were put in that package as a joke to see if I would even notice there was anything in there. Still I planted, and there were a few curse words as I dropped the seed package with the smallest seeds and could only guess they must have all scattered to the four winds.
Finally, I covered each little seedling with a fine layer of topsoil and gave them each a spritz of water much like a small child at bedtime. Lovingly I carried them to their appointed location in the downstairs bedroom. I placed the cover over the container and bid them a good day. Oh yeah, I left the light on just in case they were afraid of the dark. You never know.
Now, I wait and watch. And each day as I check on those young seeds I will utter a prayer of hope for each of them. It will go something like, please help them reach their full potential, let them raise their tender heads above the adversity of the soil and help them thrive. And with that small prayer I will spritz them with water and make sure they are filled with light and warmth.
Funny, this little garden project reminds me more each day of raising my children. Matthew and I carefully select the location that will be most suitable for raising them. We prepare the soil, environment, for their growth. We even check on them periodically and find ourselves leaving the light on just in case they are afraid of the dark. And with each day we utter the prayer that they will achieve their full potential. Like the little seeds of my garden, I wait and watch closely as our children and garden begins to take bloom. I find myself excited to see the changes and developments of each new day. I cheer for them and the work we put into them. And I am sure I will feel a tad of disappointment for those that fail to thrive. But, there is  one predilection I must confess. Unlike the children that I am obligated to see through to the end, if the seedlings give me one ounce of backtalk, they are out of here!
Happy Gardening!

Monday, February 13, 2012

Chocolate is Love


If love is a flavor then it most definitely and unequivocally must be chocolate. Chocolate, like love, is complex, hypnotic, potent and ever changing. Love doesn’t have a single flavor. It isn’t a one size fits all. Different forms and flavors are produced by varying the quantities and ingredients. Temperature can change everything. Do you remember your first love, the first time you held their hand and the way it made your heart pump? It was dreamy and pure, nothing complex, nothing fancy; just like white chocolate. Time went on and we began to grow up, and with maturity came a more refined and sophisticated palette. Our chocolate went from pure and simple to a bit more flavorful and substantial. The cocoa beans roasted a bit more and the milk chocolate became something of a delight. As often happens with too much of a good thing we may find ourselves searching for more than the sweet and simple pleasures and venturing into a more foreign territory. For some that journey will become bittersweet or simply dark. For others, we find the perfect harmony of vacillating between “couveture” and pure cocoa bliss. It is difficult to say where that perfect balance lies. Often we think we have found it only to be desensitized by the complexity of the combination. We find ourselves returning to our origins, the simple things in life and love that we know and are comfortable with. With time we usually make the cycle again, pure to bittersweet to dark and back again. Time, patience, a well tested recipe and a deep desire for chocolate are the essential ingredients. As a matter of fact, they are the most judicious ingredients for love too! Mr. Davis, you are by far my perfect blend. You are a confection of  perfection. You are my chocolate! With all my love and eternal affection, Happy Valentine's Day. Sometimes the flavor is strong and captivating and other times it is sheer whimsy or downright nutty. Whatever the intensity, I love the flavor.  I hope you all have a wonderful Valentine’s Day. With that said, I think I will have a piece of chocolate.